- Keeping it real - Spiritual Jargon as a distancing tool
- Equality and tolerance - as a psychic development necessity
- When people demand stuff - is how you are asking preventing you from receiving?
- When the student is ready the master appears - recognising the sovereignty of others
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Keeping it real -
Spiritual jargon as a distancing tool
In so saying, I love the video below, and in fact the whole JP Spears channel more than you can imagine.
In the past, I have thought of making comedy sketches like these out of things that are said or done in my industry. Things that at times make me laugh, and at times make me want to move to Siberia. This guy is definitely cut out for the task of showing up an excellent and hilarious mirror to our field that I think we all should see and contemplate.
Spiritual pride and spiritual jargon use is not like the various pride movements that seek equality in society.
Spiritual pride doesn't want equality, instead it seeks to be ultimately right and have the right of way - in everything.
Particularly severe cases are at the cost of other people's peace. Put into use in every day life, spiritual pride can break up marriages, cause career nose dives, and often ensures the person employing it ends up with no income and no direction at all.
Being grounded means that just because someone in your life doesn't agree with your perspective, you can still respect them and love them. People can't "stop you" purely by their thoughts and energy, otherwise, it is yet another excuse for not taking hold of your own life, your choices, and your success. In being grounded you control your thoughts and emotions, they don't control you.
Equality and tolerance - as a psychic development necessity
When we seek to read others accurately, we have to remember there can be great conflict within the person having the reading. How you show them something may be in a way they have never thought of it before. And that can be deeply challenging
It is really important to understand how best to communicate through conflict by bringing equality and compassion to the table in order to not be taken in by the aggressive thinking, communication and intention of some clients.
Feeling that underneath all that initial bravado was a very hurt individual who would take out their hurt on anyone who didn't comply with their expectations, I knew to handle them with extra care. I felt they had been told the same answer by a range of psychics. That what those other psychics had said would be the opposite to what I would have to say. That the reason they wouldn't hate me at the end of the reading was that their friend would be present to hear the truth of what I would say, and that same truth is the one which the friend had already told the client countless times. Ans that the friend would reply with confirmations that I knew the client would not give me because they were having difficulty facing harsh realities that, if faced would help them move forward in their life finally.
That I would have to carefully choose my words so as not to inflame the client who I also know would then try to change my answers by repeating the same question in a myriad of ways as changing the answers would change their outcomes in real life.
So, I started, "Today I am going to tell you everything your friend here has already repeated to you many times over and which you refuse to hear because you go to psychics who tell you the opposite to your friend."
They both laughed.
Within minutes they were both stunned. Within half an hour the client was crying, angry, then relieved. And within the last few minutes of the remainder of the one hour appointment, they were both begging me to read for the friend right there and then. I had to refuse in order to recharge in the short time left between what was that very intense booking, and the next client who would need my fresh, calm insight.
During the appointment, I had explained at the point when they reached anger that I empathised with how painful the situation was and that while anger is understandable, given how many other readers they had seen, that they had chosen to count on that instead of listening to their own instincts, and the advice of everyone else around them who knows them and the situation.
That, the anger taken out on strangers wasn't going to help them deal with the reality of the situation.
And, I said that I was glad they brought their friend along because I knew that their friend would verify what I had to say because if they had come alone, and been faced with a reader whose answer they could not change, they would have left complaining about me... because I wasn't going to give them the fairytale I was going to give them the truth, but also the tools to deal with the truth.
Also, I let them know that because they had brought their friend along, they would walk out happy because they wouldn't be able to deny the truth when spoken, and that although they brought the friend in order to create a "gotcha" moment against me, I didn't take it personally, and it had only served to help me further deliver the message they really needed to hear, and then they found themselves forced them to listen to.
As they left they asked me how long before they should get another reading, I replied
"In your case, not until your friend says so, and definitely not any more often than one year, thanks."
The best readings happen when you let go of how you think a psychic medium should read for you, and you don't internally demand what they should say in order for you to feel that they are valid...you did choose to contact them.
When people demand stuff - are you a giver?
And, is how you are asking preventing you from receiving?
But like all things, there are boundaries and limits to things. Emailing my private, personal address at 3am in the same city as me and being demanding in how you go about that request may well be one of those limits.
We are in an age that people reach out across the world at times for help, and can be so desperate in their search that they do it in that way. We can also reach across the internet to share love and support, but just as equally as people also feel they can reach across the internet with a form of virtual strangulation.
If you are a psychic medium and are giving too much, you may find yourself drained, and so it is important to take into account that some form of energy exchange for your work is a way of mutually appreciating that time and energy, and a common respect between people which enhances the lives of both participants.
I happily do this radio show for no profit at all, sponsoring its airing and give free readings on air, and arranging amazing guests who also give of their time for free as well. It is one of the many ways I give back to the wider community who seeks my services full time in paid appointments.
However, in among the hundreds of messages, calls, texts, emails, inbox messages, and social media comments we happily receive each week, there are also at times deeply involved and repetitive communications from complete strangers (who don't follow or like any of my public pages or listen to this show) who send private inbox messages to my private page, and then follow that up with repetitively texting me, emailing by business, then calling my receptionist perhaps even 3 times a day, and sometimes at all hours and on all days. For those people to understand, my receptionist doesn't work for the radio station my show airs on, nor is she even in the same country as the production studio. She just books paid appointments.
If you are contacting psychics and mediums at all hours and repetitively copying and pasting messages to many of them and not getting much of an answer, or the answer you wanted, I can guarantee it is not because no one cares. Instead, it's often because of the volumes of messages each and every week, and the very intimate details of the content of what people email me and others working in my field that we must reinforce such strong boundaries in order to remain fresh in our work, and also to help people who are ready to utilise that help appropriately.
You are always welcome to email your messages on this website page, and on our facebook social media page, and you are also welcome to call during the show, to go into the line for a call back reading on air.
But like all things, there are boundaries and limits to things, so please be patient if you have sent in a message to the show via this website or via the facebook social media page.
We do care and we do get back to you as soon as we can.
When the student is ready, the master appears -
Recognising the sovereignty of others
A woman came into my shop selling something door to door. She proceeded to tell me all about her guru, and how that one is fully self actualised, self mastered, and so on. I smiled, and began to reply. She interrupted what I was saying to rebuff:-
"No offence, but you are only a psychic"
I smiled and told her a few things and then circled my words back around and said,
"Do you know why the old saying goes that when the student is ready the master will appear?"
She looked dumbfounded, and mouthed
" It's not that the master wasn't always there, it's that when the student is ready they can finally recognise the master standing right in front of them..."
"Oh, I see why you said you cannot call anyone on earth "Master" except as an equal...and why it is I need the guru, and why you don't."
I wished her well as she left. I didn't buy any of what she was selling, and as she left, the microwave oven finished and went "Bing."
I locked the door and ate my lunch.
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